Nosebleeds, Bites, and Choking: What to Do
Ages 8–12
A kid gets a nosebleed at school. Someone steps on a bee. A toddler puts something in their mouth and starts gagging. These situations are common, scary in the moment, and almost always manageable if you know what to do.
Nosebleeds
- Sit the person up and lean them slightly forward (NOT back — leaning back causes blood to flow into the throat).
- Pinch the soft part of the nose (just below the bony bridge) firmly.
- Hold for 10 minutes without releasing. Time it — it feels longer than you think.
- After 10 minutes, release gently. If still bleeding, pinch for another 10 minutes.
- Seek medical help if bleeding continues beyond 20 minutes.
Insect Bites and Stings
Bee Sting:
- Remove the stinger by scraping sideways with a flat edge (credit card). Don't squeeze with tweezers — this injects more venom.
- Apply a cold pack to reduce swelling.
- Monitor for allergic reaction (see below).
Tick:
- Do NOT squeeze, scratch, or use chemicals on an attached tick. In Australia, this can cause the tick to inject more allergen.
- Kill the tick in place using a permethrin-based cream or freeze spray, then remove once dead.
- Seek medical advice, especially in tick-prone areas of eastern Australia.
Anaphylaxis (Severe Allergic Reaction):
Signs: swelling of face/throat, difficulty breathing, dizziness, rapid pulse. This is a life-threatening emergency.
- If the person has an EpiPen, help them use it (inject into outer mid-thigh).
- Call 000 immediately.
- Lay the person flat (or sitting up if breathing is difficult).
- Stay with them until help arrives.
Choking
If the person CAN cough:
Encourage them to keep coughing. Coughing is the body's best method for clearing an airway. Do not interfere.
If the person CANNOT cough, speak, or breathe:
- Give 5 sharp back blows between the shoulder blades (heel of hand, leaning the person forward).
- If that doesn't work: 5 chest thrusts (similar position to CPR compressions).
- Alternate: 5 back blows, 5 chest thrusts.
- If the person becomes unconscious, begin CPR and call 000.
Note for infants: Use gentle back blows while supporting the baby face-down on your forearm. Never use abdominal thrusts on infants.
Tonight's Question
"Quick — someone is choking and can't breathe. What do you do? Can everyone in the family walk through the steps?"
First Aid Scenarios
- Create cards with different first aid scenarios (nosebleed, bee sting, choking, etc.).
- Draw a card. Walk through the correct response.
- Others check: is the response correct? Anything missing?
- Practise back blows on each other (gently! — practise the motion, not the force).
- Know where the EpiPen is if anyone in the family has severe allergies.
Go Further
- Research: Tick allergy in Australia — why is tick anaphylaxis a growing concern on the east coast?
- Skill: Learn to use an EpiPen (training devices are available from pharmacies).
- Course: A hands-on first aid course teaches these skills with realistic practice.
- Question: Should every school and workplace have EpiPens available?
What We Simplified
- Tick advice varies by region. The "kill in place" method is recommended in Australia but differs from advice in other countries.
- Choking protocols differ for infants, children, and adults. We provided general guidance. Age-specific training is recommended.
- Allergies are complex. Some people have mild reactions that don't require an EpiPen. Always follow the person's existing action plan if they have one.
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